Kony Das, MSW, ASW
Registered Associate Marriage & Family Therapist
Registered California Board of Behavioral Sciences Number: ACSW 124991
Supervised by Jessie Li, LMFT 102623
Teen, Adult, & Family Therapist
Location: Arcadia, California, Online
Language: English
Fee: $175
Sliding Scale: Available
Insurance: Cigna, Aetna, United Healthcare, Optum, & can provide superbill for PPO plans
Accepting New Clients: Yes
Populations: Adults, Families, Teens
Specialties: Anxiety & Stress Management, Asian & Asian American Experience, Body Image & Disordered Eating, Burnout & Perfectionism, Neurodivergent Affirmative Care, Teen & Adult ADHD, Trauma & PTSD
Hi I’m Kony, and I’m excited to meet you!
With a background in neuroscience and psychobiology, I help you make sense of the why behind how we react to stress and help you get more comfortable with your brain, body, and emotions. I also pull from my lived experience as a second generation Indian (Bengali) immigrant to help you find and utilize the strengths in your culture while holding less tightly to the expectations that hurt you. I received my Master of Social Welfare degree from UCLA and have mostly grown up in SoCal. Some of my hobbies are enjoying dramatic music, exploring information rabbit holes or listening to people explain their passions, and dopamine dressing. I love learning about different fandoms and subcultures and fields of study.
I have experience working with neurodiverse individuals (ADHD, Autism, and more), people navigating identity shifts or life transitions, and those struggling with anxieties, depression, trauma, grief and loss, disordered eating and body image, behavioral addictions, and shame. I also support families and partnerships working through strained communication and breakdowns in connection.
I’m here to help anyone who needs a safe space to just be themselves, or explore who that even is in an awkwardness-normalized, judgement-free zone where I always remember we’re both human. We’ll work together to build off your strengths, challenge limiting beliefs and rules that aren’t serving you, and break free from the cycles you’re tired of.
We can start wherever you’re stuck right now, whether that’s a place of overwhelm, shifting identity/roles, or having an idea of what you need but not how to want it. I’m not disappointed if you’re not excited for change. Therapy with me is collaborative, with plenty of room for humor, ambivalence, and works in progress.
Autism, ADHD Coaching / Executive Functioning Coaching + Therapy
If you’d like to focus on practical life skills, accountability and guidance on the path to achieving specific personal or professional goals, and exploring ways to adjust your environment to accommodate your needs, coaching can help. I work with neurodivergent clients, whether recently diagnosed or long-aware, who often feel overwhelmed, misunderstood, or stuck trying to meet expectations that don’t match how their brain works. Many are exploring what it means to be autistic, ADHD, or both, and navigating the grief, relief, and identity shifts that come with that. In coaching, you don’t need a diagnosis to take action about the frustrations and stress your time management, impulse control, or sensory processing struggles are causing you. New environments or roles, aging, and experiencing depression are a few things that can amplify executive functioning struggles, and therapy may be a better fit for you if you’d like to include processing past experiences or addressing mental health conditions.
I’ve worked with individuals of all ages with neurodevelopmental differences and their families and can provide a validating, neurodiversity-affirming space where we can explore sustainable strategies, accommodations, and self-understanding. Together, we unlearn shame, build confidence, and center your strengths—helping you live more authentically and find your groove in a world that has perhaps sometimes felt unrelentingly overwhelming or determined to misunderstand you.
Eating Disorders & Body Image
There is no specific way someone must look to be experiencing disordered eating or negative body image. In some cultures (ethnic/familial, sports/dance, vocational), it is the way of life and focus of conversations and scrutiny. Struggles with eating and body image are often about so much more than food—they’re tied to identity, control, shame, and survival. I support clients in untangling those layers with compassion, curiosity, and a deep understanding of how our brains and bodies respond to stress and trauma. Drawing from my background in neuroscience, intersectionality, relational work, and experience in residential and inpatient eating disorder treatment, I help people reconnect with themselves, challenge harmful patterns, and build a relationship with their body that feels safer, more honest, and more their own.
Anxiety
I help people with maladaptive coping mechanisms build the confidence and safety they need to practice what helps them find peace and joy rather than only comfort and short-term relief. Anxiety often shows up in my clients as overthinking, emotional overwhelm, and decision paralysis—sometimes after years of “keeping it together” at a high cost. You might feel like you know what you’re supposed to do but can’t make yourself do it, or find yourself caught in cycles of avoidance, burnout, or shame.
After time working at residential level treatment for eating disorders, I view disordered eating, procrastination, and many behavioral addictions as stemming from anxiety. We can explore the ways your coping mechanisms have served you, what letting go of them would mean for your identity and self-image, and what safer alternatives can fulfill the same needs.
Times of Change
Transitions, such as career changes, identity shifts, new diagnosis, breakups, new life stages, or loss, can bring uncertainty, grief, and disorientation. Even positive changes can feel destabilizing. People often feel ungrounded, anxious, or unsure of who they are during or after major changes. I offer a collaborative, culturally aware space to process ambivalence, explore what’s emerging, and clarify what matters now and what resources you have to move forward. I understand how difficult it can be to sit in the “in-between” of transformation, or feeling like you’re ping-ponging between letting go and holding on more tightly. Whether we’re processing impatience or cultivating urgency, I support you by helping slow down, feel strong enough to look directly at and process what’s shifting, and make meaning out of your experience.
Family Therapy
Perhaps you’ve noticed a growing tension within your romantic couple, parenting partners, guardian-child, or siblings unit, showing up as cycling between angry fighting and loud silences as you ignore a topic. Maybe you’ve already tried consulting your community and not found a solution, or just prefer to talk to a neutral party. Crises, significant changes, or a key individual member’s struggles can rock family patterns, leaving everyone feeling off balance. Or sometimes families or couples may struggle to navigate assimilated vs traditional cultural differences, communication differences between languages or ethnic/familial norms, or the potentially oppositional perspectives that can develop from different foundational life experiences or experiencing the same event in vastly different ways. I offer compassion and respect for the benefits you bring to your family’s dynamic system, whether it includes purposeful hierarchies or not, as we determine the discussions, clarifications, and expansion of skills that can improve your family’s harmony and resilience.
Asian and South Asian Experience
It can be isolating to be the only one from your background in a room, and you may feel resentment or gratitude to your heritage, or a mix. I understand how the same umbrella cultural context can be affected by socioeconomic status, family education and immigration history, sociopolitical conflict history, and access to culture dependent on gender assigned at birth. I feel lucky to have grown up communally, raised by a couple different cultures, surrounded by many different languages and religious sects. I am conversationally fluent in Bengali, and can understand Hindi/Urdu and Spanish pretty well. I’m culturally and spiritually Hindu, though not religious and deeply respect the power of faith and rituals, across religions. I understand that religion and spirituality can be a source of community and hope, and also rejection and pain. Additionally, I want to clearly welcome other members of the LGBTQIA+ community to work with me, as a safe space for your journey.
If you’re looking for a place where you can just be yourself without judgment, without needing to have everything figured out, let’s work together. I’d be honored to be a part of your journey to living a more intentional and enjoyable life.