NABI FAMILY THERAPY
ADHD Therapy for Asian American Adults in Manhattan Beach, CA
Finally Understand How Your Uniquely Wired Brain Works, Without Shame or Judgment
Growing up, you were the "good student" who worked twice as hard as everyone else just to keep up.
Teachers praised your effort, but inside, you felt like you were drowning. Maybe you developed perfect coping strategies that masked your struggles, or perhaps you were told you were "too smart" to have ADHD. Now, as an adult, you're realizing that your brain simply works differently, and that's not something to fix or hide.
At Nabi Family Therapy in Manhattan Beach, we understand the unique experience of Asian American adults discovering ADHD later in life. The cultural emphasis on academic achievement, the stigma around mental health, and the model minority myth often prevent proper diagnosis and support. You've likely spent years believing your struggles were personal failures rather than neurological differences that require understanding and accommodation.
Our specialized approach combines evidence-based ADHD treatment with deep cultural competency. We help you rewrite the narrative from "What's wrong with me?" to "How does my brain work best?" Located in the heart of Manhattan Beach, we provide a safe space where your cultural identity is honored while addressing the real challenges ADHD presents in your daily life.
Adult ADHD therapy at Nabi Family Therapy is specifically designed for Asian American adults who are navigating late diagnosis or seeking proper support for the first time.
Many of our clients come to us after years of feeling different, struggling with executive function, or realizing that their childhood coping mechanisms are no longer sustainable in adult life. Our culturally informed approach recognizes how academic pressure, family expectations, and cultural stigma have shaped your relationship with your ADHD brain.
Our comprehensive evaluation process looks beyond surface-level symptoms to understand how ADHD has manifested in your specific cultural context. We recognize that Asian American students often develop sophisticated masking strategies that hide ADHD symptoms, leading to underdiagnosis or misdiagnosis. Linda Yoon, our co-director who has ADHD herself, brings both professional expertise and lived experience to help you understand how ADHD has influenced your self-narrative and relationships.
The therapy process focuses on three key areas: developing practical executive function strategies, processing the emotional impact of late diagnosis, and integrating your ADHD identity with your cultural values. We work collaboratively to create personalized systems that work with your brain's natural patterns rather than against them. This might include time management techniques that honor your cultural obligations, communication strategies for family relationships, or workplace accommodations that respect your professional goals.
Throughout treatment, we address the shame and self-criticism that often accompany late ADHD diagnosis, especially in cultures that emphasize discipline and self-control. Our goal is to help you develop self-compassion and practical skills that allow you to thrive authentically, honoring both your neurological differences and your cultural identity in the Manhattan Beach community and beyond.
Finally Understand How Your Brain Works
Key Benefits
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Traditional ADHD assessments often miss Asian American adults because they don't account for cultural factors that mask symptoms. At Nabi Family Therapy, our evaluation process specifically recognizes how academic achievement pressure, cultural stigma, and family expectations have influenced your ADHD presentation. We understand that you may have been overlooked because you were a high achiever or because your hyperactivity manifested as internal restlessness rather than obvious behavioral issues.
Our Manhattan Beach location serves a diverse community where many Asian American families have navigated similar experiences. Linda Yoon, our co-director, brings both her clinical expertise as an LCSW and her personal experience as an adult with ADHD to create an assessment environment where your unique story is heard and understood. We look at how ADHD symptoms have impacted your relationships, career, and sense of self within your cultural context.
The assessment process goes beyond checking symptom boxes to explore how your brain's wiring has affected your life trajectory. We examine patterns like perfectionism, people-pleasing, or workaholism that may have developed as coping mechanisms. This comprehensive approach ensures that you receive an accurate diagnosis and treatment plan that honors both your neurological differences and cultural identity, setting the foundation for authentic healing and growth.
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ADHD affects executive functions like planning, organization, and time management, challenges that can feel especially overwhelming when you're navigating multiple cultural expectations. Our therapy approach recognizes that your executive function struggles aren't character flaws but neurological differences that require specific strategies and tools. We help you develop systems that work with your ADHD brain while respecting your cultural obligations and family responsibilities.
Many Asian American adults with ADHD have learned to compensate through intense effort and rigid structures, leading to burnout and increased anxiety. In our Manhattan Beach practice, we work with you to identify which coping strategies are sustainable and which are depleting your energy. We help you distinguish between cultural values you want to honor and unrealistic standards that are harming your well-being.
Our executive function support includes practical tools for managing multiple priorities, strategies for handling sensory overwhelm, and techniques for maintaining focus during important tasks. We also address the emotional aspects of executive dysfunction, helping you develop self-compassion when your brain doesn't work the way you expect it to. This integrated approach helps you build sustainable systems that support both your professional success and personal well-being within the South Bay community.
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Receiving an ADHD diagnosis as an adult, especially as an Asian American, often brings a complex mix of relief, grief, and confusion. You may be processing years of wondering "What if I had known sooner?" while simultaneously feeling grateful to finally have answers. Our therapy approach specifically addresses the emotional journey of late ADHD diagnosis, helping you integrate this new understanding of yourself with your existing cultural identity.
Cultural stigma around mental health and neurological differences can intensify feelings of shame around ADHD symptoms. In our Manhattan Beach practice, we create a safe space to explore these feelings without judgment. We help you understand how cultural messages about discipline, focus, and success may have contributed to internalized shame about your brain's differences. This process is essential for developing a healthy relationship with your ADHD identity.
The integration process involves reframing your personal narrative from one of deficiency to one of difference and strength. We explore how your ADHD traits may have contributed to creativity, empathy, or innovative thinking, while also acknowledging the real challenges you face. This balanced perspective helps you communicate about your needs with family members, partners, and colleagues in ways that honor both your cultural values and your neurological reality. The goal is authentic self-acceptance that allows you to advocate for yourself effectively.
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ADHD doesn't exist in isolation; it affects your relationships with family members, especially in cultures where individual differences may be less understood or accepted. Our family therapy approach helps bridge the gap between your ADHD needs and your family's cultural expectations. We work with you and your loved ones to develop understanding and communication strategies that honor both your neurological differences and your family's values.
Many Asian American families struggle to understand ADHD because it conflicts with cultural beliefs about discipline, effort, and self-control. At our Manhattan Beach location, we provide education and support that helps family members understand that ADHD is a neurological difference, not a character flaw or parenting failure. We facilitate conversations that allow for mutual understanding and practical support strategies.
This family-centered approach is particularly important for parents with ADHD who are raising children, couples where one partner has ADHD, or adult children helping their own parents understand their diagnosis. We help navigate cultural expectations around academic achievement, career success, and family roles while ensuring your ADHD needs are met. The result is stronger family relationships built on understanding rather than frustration or disappointment.
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ADHD can significantly impact professional and academic performance, but with the right strategies, your unique brain wiring can become a professional asset. Our therapy includes specific support for navigating workplace challenges, from managing executive function demands to advocating for appropriate accommodations. We help you identify environments and roles where your ADHD traits are strengths rather than obstacles.
The Manhattan Beach area includes many high-achieving professionals who may have succeeded despite undiagnosed ADHD, often at great personal cost. We work with you to develop sustainable work practices that prevent burnout while maximizing your productivity and creativity. This includes time management strategies, organization systems, and communication techniques that work with your natural patterns rather than against them.
For those in academic settings, we provide support for managing complex projects, improving focus during studying, and developing test-taking strategies that accommodate ADHD differences. We also help you understand your rights regarding academic accommodations and how to effectively communicate your needs to professors or administrators. The goal is professional and academic success that feels authentic and sustainable rather than exhausting and overwhelming.
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Years of struggling with undiagnosed ADHD, especially within cultures that may not recognize or accept neurological differences, can create trauma-like responses around productivity, self-worth, and belonging. Our trauma-informed approach, including EMDR when appropriate, helps heal the emotional wounds created by years of feeling different, misunderstood, or "not good enough."
Linda Yoon's training in EMDR and trauma therapy specifically addresses the complex trauma that can result from chronic misunderstanding and invalidation. This might include shame around academic struggles, relationship difficulties, or workplace challenges that were actually ADHD-related but were interpreted as personal failures. We help you process these experiences and develop a more compassionate relationship with yourself.
The healing process includes grieving what might have been different with earlier diagnosis, while celebrating your resilience and strength. We work to separate cultural messages about success and achievement from your inherent worth as a person. This deep healing work creates the foundation for authentic self-acceptance and empowers you to make choices based on your values rather than shame or fear. Recovery from this type of complex experience takes time, but it opens the door to living more authentically within the diverse Manhattan Beach community.
Our Services
✔ Adult ADHD Therapy
Specialized individual therapy for Asian American adults navigating ADHD diagnosis and treatment. Our approach combines evidence-based ADHD interventions with cultural competency, addressing executive function challenges, emotional regulation, and identity integration. We help you develop practical skills while processing the emotional impact of late diagnosis and creating sustainable life strategies.
✔ Parent Child Therapy for ADHD Families
Support for parents with ADHD and their children, addressing how neurological differences affect family dynamics. We help bridge generational and cultural gaps in understanding ADHD while strengthening parent-child relationships and improving family communication patterns.
✔ ADHD Evaluations & Assessments
Comprehensive ADHD assessments are designed to identify symptoms that may have been missed due to cultural factors or masking strategies. Our evaluation process considers how cultural expectations, academic pressure, and family dynamics may have influenced symptom presentation. We provide detailed recommendations for treatment and accommodations.
✔ Individual Therapy with ADHD Focus
One-on-one therapy sessions that address how ADHD intersects with other life challenges like anxiety, depression, or relationship issues. We use culturally informed approaches to help you understand your brain's unique wiring while developing coping strategies that honor your cultural identity and values.
✔ EMDR & Trauma Therapy for ADHD-Related Trauma
Specialized trauma therapy addressing the emotional impact of years with undiagnosed or misunderstood ADHD. We help heal shame, self-criticism, and complex trauma that may have developed from chronic invalidation or misunderstanding of your neurological differences within family or cultural contexts.
Our Process
1. Initial Consultation and Cultural Assessment
Your journey begins with a comprehensive consultation that explores both your ADHD symptoms and cultural context. We discuss your personal history, family background, and how cultural factors may have influenced your relationship with your symptoms. This initial session helps us understand your unique presentation and goals for treatment.
2. Comprehensive ADHD Evaluation
If appropriate, we conduct a thorough ADHD assessment that looks beyond traditional symptom checklists to understand how your brain differences have manifested in your specific cultural environment. This includes standardized testing, detailed history taking, and exploration of how masking or coping strategies may have hidden symptoms. We provide a detailed report with recommendations for treatment and accommodations.
3. Treatment Planning & Goal Setting
Together, we create a personalized treatment plan that addresses your specific needs while honoring your cultural values and life circumstances. This collaborative process ensures that your therapy goals align with your personal values and practical needs. We discuss frequency of sessions, specific interventions, and measurable outcomes. Timeline: 1 session, with ongoing adjustments as needed.
4. Active Treatment & Skill Development
Regular therapy sessions focus on developing practical ADHD management skills, processing emotional aspects of diagnosis, and integrating your ADHD identity with your cultural identity. We use evidence-based interventions adapted for your cultural context, including executive function coaching, trauma processing when needed, and family system support. Timeline: Ongoing, typically weekly sessions with progress reviews every 4-6 weeks.
5. Integration & Long-term Success Planning
As you develop confidence and skills, we work on long-term strategies for maintaining progress and preventing relapse. This includes developing your support network, creating sustainable self-care practices, and planning for life transitions. We also address any family or relationship work needed to support your ongoing success. Timeline: Gradual transition to less frequent sessions as goals are met.
Our Approach
At Nabi Family Therapy, our approach to adult ADHD treatment is grounded in the understanding that neurological differences intersect with cultural identity in complex ways.
We believe that effective ADHD treatment must address not only symptom management but also the cultural context that has shaped your relationship with your brain differences.
Our methodology combines evidence-based ADHD interventions with deep cultural competency and trauma-informed care.
Linda Yoon brings both professional expertise and lived experience to ADHD treatment, having navigated her own adult ADHD diagnosis within an Asian American cultural context. This dual perspective allows for an authentic understanding of the unique challenges faced by Asian American adults with ADHD, from family dynamics to workplace expectations. We integrate various therapeutic modalities, including EMDR for trauma processing, DBT skills for emotional regulation, and somatic approaches that honor the mind-body connection.
Our treatment philosophy recognizes that ADHD traits can be strengths when properly understood and supported. Rather than focusing solely on deficits, we help you identify how your unique brain wiring contributes to creativity, empathy, and innovative thinking. We work collaboratively to develop strategies that leverage your strengths while addressing genuine challenges in areas like executive function, time management, and emotional regulation.
The Manhattan Beach location allows us to serve a diverse community where many families have navigated the intersection of high achievement expectations and neurological differences. We understand the local culture while providing specialized support that may not be available in traditional therapy settings. Our goal is to help you thrive authentically, honoring both your neurological differences and cultural identity within your community and relationships.
Frequently Asked Questions
Nabi Family Therapy was founded by Linda Yoon and Soo Jin Lee to create inclusive, culturally competent mental health services in Manhattan Beach. With specialized expertise in Asian American experiences and ADHD treatment, we provide safe, supportive therapy that honors both neurological differences and cultural identity.
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ADHD in Asian American adults often goes undiagnosed due to cultural factors like academic achievement masking symptoms, family stigma around mental health, and the model minority myth. Many develop sophisticated coping strategies that hide struggles, leading to late diagnosis. Our culturally informed approach recognizes these unique presentations and provides appropriate support.
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Asian American students often excel academically despite ADHD symptoms, masking difficulties through intense effort and rigid structure. Cultural emphasis on discipline and self-control may lead families and teachers to overlook ADHD signs. Additionally, girls and women are frequently underdiagnosed, especially when symptoms present as inattention rather than hyperactivity.
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We provide family education that explains ADHD as a neurological difference rather than a character flaw or parenting failure. Our approach honors cultural values while advocating for your needs. We offer family therapy sessions to facilitate understanding and communication, helping bridge the gap between cultural expectations and ADHD realities.
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ADHD therapy specifically addresses executive function challenges, attention difficulties, and the emotional impact of neurological differences. We use specialized interventions like executive function coaching, organizational strategies, and ADHD-specific coping skills. Our approach also addresses trauma from years of misunderstanding and helps integrate ADHD identity with cultural identity.
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We provide comprehensive ADHD evaluations and assessments, including detailed reports with recommendations for treatment and accommodations. While we don't prescribe medication, we work collaboratively with psychiatrists and medical providers when medication is part of your treatment plan. Our focus is on therapy, skill development, and emotional support.
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